Take something to the temple at burning man then watch it burn

I've burned something in the temple every year at Burning Man for 5 years.  This year it was a photo and letter to my dear friend Kim, who's ashes were also there in the temple.  That was where she wanted her ashes to go, and although we had almost a year to psychologically prepare from the time she died until the last temple burn, it was still so hard to watch it go up in smoke...but so beautiful...our tears were of sorrow and joy...